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Terri Turner / 5,286 items

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.....looking at children's behaviour as 'good or bad' or 'naughty or nice' means you are judging and labeling them...but far far worse you are missing out on the opportunity to learn from the child what is actually happening to them and miss out on the teachable moment being present...young children are unable to articulate with developed language what they feel let alone what they perceive as the truth...you as the adult have to take the time to ask questions and listen to what the child says does or feels about the experience before you can guide, teach or educate them on what other choices of action could have been acted on for next time...when a child speaks they are telling you their truth and will fight very hard to be believed and you as the adult have to acknowledge their truth...shaming, embarrassing, humiliating, bulling or demoralizing a child never solves any problem but pushes the child deeper and deeper into trauma which one day will be acted out at the expense of the child and the wider community.

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No one would disagree that technical devices have exponentially grown over the past 50 years. Human physical advancements for some of the world’s populations are extremely high and continue to push further and further forward with new inventions for just about every known possible need or want.

Whereas the advancements in human relationships with themselves and with each other is at an all-time low with escalating wars and conflicts growing out of control daily around the world within families, communities and entire countries.

In the family home and in school institutions around the world the major focus is mainly directed at everyone working harder for more wants to be attained. Better jobs, bigger homes, to own the latest fashion cloths, phones, technical devices, cars. Everywhere you look in a modern civilised society you will find no value at all on teaching social and emotional relationship skills.

Social and emotional bankruptcy has become the norm. At the exact same time you can view the technical advancements on graphs spiralling ever upwards at alarming rates of monetary success you can view the graphs of human social and emotional collapse spiralling ever downwards into individual depression, suicide, mental disease and community anarchy.

At the foundation of this problem is the immature way of thinking that humanity has brought with it from its childhood stage. “Black and White” thinking is how a child’s brain works and should be left in childhood times and not brought through into the maturing stages of humanity.

As a collective society we have failed to see that the child when turning 11 needs new social and emotional training to assist them to move out of the child thinking model of “Black and White” and move into a youth “Grey’’ thinking model with all new concepts on how to respond to themselves, each other and the world around them.

If we fail, at first as individuals then as an entire world community to see and grasp that human beings have physical needs that have to be balanced out with emotional and social needs then we can only split ourselves and our societies into extinction.

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Pilgrim Center Bahji

visa's every where you look...beauty at every level and direction...surrounded with love

Tags:   closing hours to our Pilgrimage Anniversary June 2013 Bahji Israel Akka

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sun setting on a profound day...

Tags:   closing hours to our Pilgrimage Anniversary June 2013 Bahji Israel Akka

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silk carpet within Pilgrim Center Bahji

Tags:   closing hours to our Pilgrimage Anniversary June 2013 Bahji Israel Akka


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